Challenges of dating a divorced father
And the idea of being a stepmom someday keeps that door open.But for all the pluses, there are some very real downsides of dating divorced dads.Some men even look a little war-torn and beaten down when they talk about their divorces.
And dating one can feel like I get to play grown-up in their presence, too, like maybe their adultness will rub off on me.
Being hurt before left the divorced dads I've dated skittish; they were apprehensive about getting hurt again and wary of committing.
One dad seemed to want preemptive reassurance, saying to me in our first phone conversation, "I need someone who can talk about emotions. " They've all displayed confusing hot and cold behavior, and a few flat-out said, sometimes even years after getting divorced, that they weren't ready to be in a relationship yet.
If you're single and dating, once you hit your mid-30s you start to notice more and more divorced dads on Tinder, Ok Cupid, and IRL.
By 40, what was once few and far between is now your main dating demographic.